Subtle Art of Not Giving a F*ck

8 Quotes on Learning From Experience and How To Fail Forward in Life

8 Quotes on Learning From Experience and How To Fail Forward in Life

Introduction: Failures are only ever as detrimental as you make them.

The path towards your ultimate success is always going to be checkered with failures.  If there are no failures then there simply aren’t enough attempts—or at least not enough of the right kinds of attempts.  Winning isn’t the result of never failing, it’s the result of failing more often than the rest. The key, is in learning how to fail forward.

Failing forward is about seeing failures as opportunities for massive growth rather than events of massive decline. 

This principle, of course, is easier said than done.  Failures are painful and can be incredibly hard to rebound from.  Continue reading

A Mastery Mindset Tip from Mark Manson: Handle Problems on Your Own Terms.

A Mastery Mindset Tip from Mark Manson: Handle Problems on Your Own Terms.

The following mastery mindset tip comes from The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F*ck by Mark Manson.  Before you dive in, take a moment to think about some of the problems and challenges you’re facing in your life…  Are they problems and challenges that are being forced upon you by someone else?  Or are they problems and challenges that are being chosen from within your control?  Once you have an idea of where you stand, read the excerpt below and think about how Manson’s mindset tip might help you take more control over your life.  Good luck!

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*Enter Mark Manson*

Imagine that somebody puts a gun to your head and tells you that you have to run 26.2 miles in under five hours, or else he’ll kill you and your entire family.

That would suck.

Now imagine that you bought nice shoes and running gear, trained religiously for months, and completed your first marathon with all of your closest family and friends cheering you on at the finish line.

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How To Handle Problems and Challenges in Life [VIDEO]

How To Handle Problems and Challenges in Life

When it comes to success, there will ALWAYS be a struggle in some way, shape, or form and we should drop the notion of living a struggle-free life—it simply won’t happen. So, what’s the solution then?

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Inspired By:  15 No Bullsh*t Success Quotes from The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F*ck

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15 No Bullsh*t Success Quotes from The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F*ck

15 No Bullsh*t Success Quotes from The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F*ck

Introduction:  No sugar-coating here.

The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F*ck by Mark Manson is a book that cuts right to the chase.  In his own words he says, “Let’s be honest, shit is f**ked and we have to live with it.”  And while it may sound like a grim and negative perspective on life, his advice is actually quite practical and direct and can help you turn your life around in less time than a lot of the, “sugar-coated” products available on the market today.

When it comes to success, Manson’s stance is that there will ALWAYS be a struggle in some way, shape, or form and that you should drop the notion of having a struggle-free career or living a struggle-free life—it simply won’t happen.  Moreover, it would lead to a boring existence!  Problems force us to think outside of our comfort zones and challenge us to grow to stronger mental, physical, and spiritual states.  The same way our bodies become stronger when challenged with resistance training and conditioning, so too does our mind and spirit become stronger with problem solving and critical thinking.  The trick, Manson suggests, is to find the problems and struggles worth challenging yourself over—the ones you actually enjoy sitting with and working to solve.

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3 Quotes From The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F*ck by Mark Manson [VIDEO]

3 Quotes From The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F*ck by Mark Manson

Three of my favorite quotes from Mark Manson’s book The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F*ck that will make you feel better about commitment.  Enjoy 🙂

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Read the full post here:  9 Relationship Quotes That Will Make You Feel Better About Commitment.

9 Relationship Quotes That Will Make You Feel Better About Commitment.

9 Relationship Quotes That Will Make You Feel Better About Commitment.

The following list of relationship quotes were all derived from Mark Manson’s book The Subtle Art of Not Giving A F*ck.  With a title like that, I’m sure you’ve already gathered this much but just to set the tone for the quotes you’re about to read, Mark is the type of author who cuts right to the chase and doesn’t sweet-talk any of the advice he gives.  There’s no positive mantras, affirmations, or feel-good stories—in fact, it’s a refreshing dose of just the opposite.

In his own words he says, “Let’s be honest, shit is f**ked and we have to live with it.”  And while it may sound like a grim and negative perspective on life, his advice is actually quite practical and direct and can help you turn your life around in less time than a lot of what he would consider to be the sugar-coated product(s) available on the market today.

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The Story of Buddha and How Happiness is Not the Absence of Suffering.

The Story of Buddha and How Happiness Is Not the Absence of Suffering.

The following is an excerpt from The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F*ck by Mark Manson.  It recounts the life and story of Buddha and how he went from being a young, spoiled child—who had essentially everything (and anything) he could have ever wished for—to the sage that we remember him as today who practiced severe asceticism before his enlightenment.

The suffering that the Buddha endured formulated the foundation for the teachings and philosophies on which Buddhism was later founded and the story of the Buddha shares a deep insight about how happiness is not the absence of suffering but rather a dance with suffering and non-ascetic, middle way living.

Below, you will find the story of Buddha as it was shared in The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F*ck.  While you read, we strongly encourage you to reflect on your beliefs of suffering and happiness and challenge you to take notes (real or mental) on areas of your life that might need some attention or reevaluation.

Some questions to consider:  Are you pursuing happiness or happy in your pursuits?  Are you waiting for a criteria to be met before you feel that you can be happy?  Is meeting that criteria really going to make you happy or will it just lead to more criteria?  If you’re feeling moved, drop some of your thoughts in the comment section below!  We hope this helps and we hope you find value in this story.  Enjoy!

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The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F*ck [Book]

Book Overview:  In this generation-defining self-help guide, a superstar blogger cuts through the crap to show us how to stop trying to be “positive” all the time so that we can truly become better, happier people.  For decades, we’ve been told that positive thinking is the key to a happy, rich life. “F**k positivity,” Mark Manson says. “Let’s be honest, shit is f**ked and we have to live with it.” In his wildly popular Internet blog, Manson doesn’t sugarcoat or equivocate. He tells it like it is—a dose of raw, refreshing, honest truth that is sorely lacking today. The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F**k is his antidote to the coddling, let’s-all-feel-good mindset that has infected modern society and spoiled a generation, rewarding them with gold medals just for showing up.

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Post(s) Inspired by this Book:

  1.  The Story of Buddha and How Happiness is Not the Absence of Suffering.
  2.  9 Relationship Quotes That Will Make You Feel Better About Commitment.
  3.  3 Quotes From The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F*ck by Mark Manson [VIDEO]
  4.  How To Handle Problems and Challenges in Life [VIDEO]
  5.  15 No Bullsh*t Success Quotes from The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F*ck
  6.  A Mastery Mindset Tip from Mark Manson: Handle Problems on Your Own Terms.
  7.  8 Quotes on Learning From Experience and How To Fail Forward in Life
  8.  How To Rebound From BIG FAILURES [VIDEO]

 

“The only way to be comfortable with death is to understand and see yourself as something bigger than yourself; to choose values that stretch beyond serving yourself, that are simple and immediate and controllable and tolerant of the chaotic world around you.  This is the basic root of all happiness.  Whether you’re listening to Aristotle or the psychologists at Harvard or Jesus Christ or the goddamn Beatles, they all say that happiness comes from the same thing: caring about something greater than yourself, believing that you are a contributing component in some much larger entity, that your life is but a mere side process of some great unintelligible production.” ~ Mark Mason, The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F*ck

“Yes, breadth of experience is likely necessary and desirable when you’re young—after all, you have to go out there and discover what seems worth investing yourself in.  But depth is where the gold is buried.  And you have to stay committed to something and go deep to dig it up.  That’s true in relationships, in a career, in building a great lifestyle—in everything.” ~ Mark Mason, The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F*ck

“Commitment gives you freedom because you’re no longer distracted by the unimportant and frivolous.  Commitment gives you freedom because it hones your attention and focus, directing them toward what is most efficient at making you healthy and happy.  Commitment makes decision-making easier and removes any fear of missing out; knowing that what you already have is good enough, why would you ever stress about chasing more, more, more again? Commitment allows you to focus intently on a few highly important goals and achieve a greater degree of success than you otherwise would.” ~ Mark Mason, The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F*ck

“While investing deeply in one person, one place, one job, one activity might deny us the breadth of experience we’d like, pursuing a breadth of experience denies us the opportunity to experience the rewards of depth of experience.  There are some experiences that you can have only when you’ve lived in the same place for five years, when you’ve been with the same person for over a decade, when you’ve been working on the same skill or craft for half your lifetime.  Now that I’m in my thirties, I can finally recognize that commitment, in its own way, offers a wealth of opportunity and experiences that would otherwise never be available to me, no matter where I went or what I did.” ~ Mark Mason, The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F*ck

“Consumer culture is very good at making us want more, more, more.  Underneath all the hype and marketing is the implication that more is always better.  I bought into this idea for years.  Make more money, visit more countries, have more experiences, be with more women.  But more is not always better.  In fact, the opposite is true.  We are actually often happier with less.  When we’re overloaded with opportunities and options, we suffer from what psychologists refer to as the paradox of choice.  Basically, the more options we’re given, the less satisfied we become with whatever we choose, because we’re aware of all the other options we’re potentially forfeiting.” ~ Mark Mason, The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F*ck

“If people cheat, it’s because something other than the relationship is more important to them.  It may be power over others.  It may be validation through sex.  It may be giving in to their own impulses.  Whatever it is, it’s clear that the cheater’s values are not aligned in a way to support a healthy relationship.  And if the cheater doesn’t admit this or come to terms with it, if he just gives the old ‘I don’t know what I was thinking; I was stressed out and drunk and she was there’ response, then he lacks the serious self-awareness necessary to solve any relationship problems.” ~ Mark Mason, The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F*ck

“To truly appreciate something, you must confine yourself to it.  There’s a certain level of joy and meaning that you reach in life only when you’ve spent decades investing in a single relationship, a single craft, a single career.  And you cannot achieve those decades of investment without rejecting the alternatives.” ~ Mark Mason, The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F*ck

 

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