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“It is always important to know when something has reached its end.  Closing circles, shutting doors, finishing chapters, it doesn’t matter what we call it; what matters is to leave in the past those moments in life that are over.” ~ Paulo Coelho

 

Taking Out The Trash; Understanding the Difference Between Living at Cause and Living at Effect.

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Taking out the trash

The following is an excerpt from Get Off Your “But” by Sean Stephenson.

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“Are you saying I’m at fault for my father beating me as a child?”

“Of course not,” I replied.  “This isn’t a matter of being at fault for being abused.  This is a matter of being responsible for how you act in response to those events now.  When you were little, you were right to do everything you needed to do to protect yourself.  The question is, are you still curling up in a ball to fend off the blows of life, or are you standing tall?”

She just stared at me, puzzled.  It was time to help her understand the difference between living at Cause and living at Effect.

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“Sometimes you have to let a person go so they can grow. Because, over the course of their lives, it is not what you do for them, but what you have taught them to do for themselves that will make them a successful human being.” ~ Marc Chernoff, Blog

 

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“We may believe that mistakes have been made already and that we cannot go back to the past to change things. When we look deeply into the relative nature of time, we see that the past has created the present. If we seize the present moment with mindfulness, we are in touch with the past. We can actually go back to the past, while staying firmly rooted in the present moment, and heal the past. We forgive ourselves for our mistakes, knowing we didn’t have enough wisdom or the right conditions at that time to do better. We transform our regrets in the present into compassion and understanding, and in this way we also transform the past.” ~ Thich Nhat Hanh, Savor

 

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“It’s important to remember that whatever stage we are at in life, there is no need for regret. The process of regret is one that provides nothing but suffering for ourselves as we begin to allow the past to dictate how we should feel now. Instead, we can use the past as a reference point to understand what adjustments we would like to make moving forward. The adjustments do not have to come out of pain, sorrow, regret or judgment, but simply a choice to do things in a different way. We are learning all the time, we can very quickly slow that learning process down by getting stuck in the idea of regret. When it comes to making changes, be at peace with the past and remember that each moment is a new choice.” ~ Joe Martino

 
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