9 Relationship Quotes That Will Make You Feel Better About Commitment.

9 Relationship Quotes That Will Make You Feel Better About Commitment.

The following list of relationship quotes were all derived from Mark Manson’s book The Subtle Art of Not Giving A F*ck.  With a title like that, I’m sure you’ve already gathered this much but just to set the tone for the quotes you’re about to read, Mark is the type of author who cuts right to the chase and doesn’t sweet-talk any of the advice he gives.  There’s no positive mantras, affirmations, or feel-good stories—in fact, it’s a refreshing dose of just the opposite.

In his own words he says, “Let’s be honest, shit is f**ked and we have to live with it.”  And while it may sound like a grim and negative perspective on life, his advice is actually quite practical and direct and can help you turn your life around in less time than a lot of what he would consider to be the sugar-coated product(s) available on the market today.

One such avenue of direct and practical advice that Mark focuses on in his book is the idea of commitment—an idea that scares the crap out of a lot of people.  In today’s world, it’s especially true because we have more options and are more connected than ever before which leaves us feeling overwhelmed and anxious about whether or not we’re ever really making a right decision.

…How could I commit myself to one location for my whole life when there is an immense world out there?  

…How could I commit myself to one job when I might be missing out on another job opportunity that might be better suited for me?

…How could I commit myself to one woman when there are hundred – maybe even thousands – of other women that might match up better with me?

How can I ever know if any choice I’m making is right?!

This is where Mark comes in.  Below you will find 9 of our favorite relationship quotes from his book that we believe will help you feel better about commitment.  Of course, if you want to dive a little deeper you’ll have to pick up the book and spend some time reflecting on the entire context of what he has to say.  These commitment quotes are simply meant to whet your appetite and give you a taste of Mark’s style and view on the idea.  We hope you enjoy the list and that it helps you make some sweet decisions!  Good luck!

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The List: 9 Relationship Quotes That Will Make You Feel Better About Commitment.


“To truly appreciate something, you must confine yourself to it.  There’s a certain level of joy and meaning that you reach in life only when you’ve spent decades investing in a single relationship, a single craft, a single career.  And you cannot achieve those decades of investment without rejecting the alternatives.”


“Consumer culture is very good at making us want more, more, more.  Underneath all the hype and marketing is the implication that more is always better.  I bought into this idea for years.  Make more money, visit more countries, have more experiences, be with more women.  But more is not always better.  In fact, the opposite is true.  We are actually often happier with less.  When we’re overloaded with opportunities and options, we suffer from what psychologists refer to as the paradox of choice.  Basically, the more options we’re given, the less satisfied we become with whatever we choose, because we’re aware of all the other options we’re potentially forfeiting.”


“Yes, breadth of experience is likely necessary and desirable when you’re young—after all, you have to go out there and discover what seems worth investing yourself in.  But depth is where the gold is buried.  And you have to stay committed to something and go deep to dig it up.  That’s true in relationships, in a career, in building a great lifestyle—in everything.”


“While investing deeply in one person, one place, one job, one activity might deny us the breadth of experience we’d like, pursuing a breadth of experience denies us the opportunity to experience the rewards of depth of experience.  There are some experiences that you can have only when you’ve lived in the same place for five years, when you’ve been with the same person for over a decade, when you’ve been working on the same skill or craft for half your lifetime.  Now that I’m in my thirties, I can finally recognize that commitment, in its own way, offers a wealth of opportunity and experiences that would otherwise never be available to me, no matter where I went or what I did.”


“Commitment gives you freedom because you’re no longer distracted by the unimportant and frivolous.  Commitment gives you freedom because it hones your attention and focus, directing them toward what is most efficient at making you healthy and happy.  Commitment makes decision-making easier and removes any fear of missing out; knowing that what you already have is good enough, why would you ever stress about chasing more, more, more again? Commitment allows you to focus intently on a few highly important goals and achieve a greater degree of success than you otherwise would.”


“Freedom grants the opportunity for greater meaning, but by itself there is nothing necessarily meaningful about it.  Ultimately, the only way to achieve meaning and a sense of importance in one’s life is through a rejection of alternatives, a narrowing of freedom, a choice of commitment to one place, one belief, or (gulp) one person.”


“If people cheat, it’s because something other than the relationship is more important to them.  It may be power over others.  It may be validation through sex.  It may be giving in to their own impulses.  Whatever it is, it’s clear that the cheater’s values are not aligned in a way to support a healthy relationship.  And if the cheater doesn’t admit this or come to terms with it, if he just gives the old ‘I don’t know what I was thinking; I was stressed out and drunk and she was there’ response, then he lacks the serious self-awareness necessary to solve any relationship problems.”


“One day, in retrospect, the years of struggle will strike you as the most beautiful.”


“The only way to be comfortable with death is to understand and see yourself as something bigger than yourself; to choose values that stretch beyond serving yourself, that are simple and immediate and controllable and tolerant of the chaotic world around you.  This is the basic root of all happiness.  Whether you’re listening to Aristotle or the psychologists at Harvard or Jesus Christ or the goddamn Beatles, they all say that happiness comes from the same thing: caring about something greater than yourself, believing that you are a contributing component in some much larger entity, that your life is but a mere side process of some great unintelligible production.”

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Comment:  What has been one of the biggest commitments in your life?  What have you learned from that commitment?  How do you think your life would’ve gone without it?

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If you enjoyed these relationship quotes from The Subtle Art of Not Giving A F*ck you can find more info on the book below:

Book Overview:  In this generation-defining self-help guide, a superstar blogger cuts through the crap to show us how to stop trying to be “positive” all the time so that we can truly become better, happier people.  For decades, we’ve been told that positive thinking is the key to a happy, rich life. “F**k positivity,” Mark Manson says. “Let’s be honest, shit is f**ked and we have to live with it.” In his wildly popular Internet blog, Manson doesn’t sugarcoat or equivocate. He tells it like it is—a dose of raw, refreshing, honest truth that is sorely lacking today. The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F**k is his antidote to the coddling, let’s-all-feel-good mindset that has infected modern society and spoiled a generation, rewarding them with gold medals just for showing up.

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