10 Eye-Opening Quotes from The Way of the Superior Man

10 Eye-Opening Quotes from The Way of the Superior Man

The Way of the Superior Man is a book for both sexes. David Deida makes it clear in the introduction of his book that when he refers to ‘men’ he really is referring to the masculine energy and the purpose of the book is to unleash the most superior form of that masculine energy.  For the masculine readers, this book will explore and provide insight as to why men feel the way they do, why they act the way they do, and how they can take control of their lives to fully embrace the man that they have the potential to become.  And for the feminine readers, this book will answer the exact same questions—questions that, may or may not have crossed the feminine mind at some point or another (haha)!

The book itself is split up into concise and easy-to-digest chapters (many with bold and provocative titles) that will jolt you awake from a lifestyle of mediocrity.  Some of his chapter titles include:  Stop Hoping For a Completion of Anything in Life;  Live As If Your Father Were Dead;  Be Willing to Change Everything In Your Life;  Women Are Not Liars;  You Will Often Want More Than One Woman;  Your Excellent Track Record is Meaningless to Her;  She Want’s the “Killer” In You;  etc.  Our 10 quotes from The Way of the Superior Man below are the highlights from some of those chapters and will open your eyes WIDE to the potential of a superior lifestyle.

“It is time to evolve beyond the macho jerk ideal, all spine and no heart,” writes Deida. “It is also time to evolve beyond the sensitive wimp ideal, all heart and no spine.” The Way of the Superior Man presents the ultimate challenge—and reward—for today’s man: to “unify heart and spine” through the full expression of consciousness and love in the infinite openness of the present moment.   Are you up to the challenge?  Are you willing to discipline yourself to take the necessary actions that would lead to a superior life?  Start by whetting your appetite with our 10 quotes below.  Then, digest the full book if you’re up to the challenge.  Leave your thoughts in the comment section and don’t forget to take some kind of action today!

#10

“Most men make the error of thinking that one day it will be done.  They think, ‘If I can work enough, then one day I could rest.’ Or, ‘One day my woman will understand something and then she will stop complaining.’ Or, ‘I’m only doing this now so that one day I can do what I really want with my life.’  The masculine error is to think that eventually things will be different in some fundamental way.  They won’t.  It never ends.  As long as life continues, the creative challenge is to tussle, play, and make love with the present moment while giving your unique gift.”

#9

“If you were to die right now, what would be the feeling texture of your last moment?  Are you feeling the infinite mystery of existence, so that your last moment would be one of awe and gratitude?  Is your heart so wide open that your last moment would dissolve in perfect love? Or, are you so absorbed in some task that you would hardly notice death upon you, until the last instant, whoosh, and everything is gone?”

#8

“To help you remember the triviality of your daily tasks, interrupt your schedule with refreshers.  These refreshers should cut to your core and strip the fat off the moment.  Consider your own death.  Behold an image of the most enlightened being you know.  Contemplate the mystery of existence.  Relax into the deepest and most profound loving of which you are capable.  In your own way, remember the infinite, and then return to the task at hand.  This way, you will never lose perspective and begin to think that life is a matter of tasks.  You are not a drone.  You are the unbounded mystery of love.  Be so, without forgetting your tasks.”

#7

“The core of your life is your purpose.  Everything in your life, from your diet to your career, must be aligned with your purpose if you are to act with coherence and integrity in the world.  If you know your purpose, your deepest desire, then the secret of success is to discipline your life so that you support your deepest purpose and minimize distractions and detours.”

#6

“In any given moment, a man’s growth is optimized if he leans just beyond his edge, his capacity, his fear.  He should not be too lazy, happily stagnating in the zone of security and comfort.  Nor should he push far beyond his edge, stressing himself unnecessarily, unable to metabolize his experience.  He should lean just slightly beyond the edge of fear and discomfort.  Constantly.  In everything he does.”

#5

“By leaning just beyond your fear, you challenge your limits compassionately, without trying to escape the feeling of fear itself.  You step beyond the solid ground of security with an open heart.  You stand in the space of unknowingness, raw and awake.  Here, the gravity of deep being will attend you to the only place where fear is obsolete: the eternal free fall of home.  Where you always are.  Own your fear, and lean just beyond it.  In every aspect of your life.  Starting now.”

#4

“Make your life an ongoing process of being who you are, at your deepest, most easeful levels of being.  Everything other than this process is secondary.  Your job, your children, your wife, your money, your artistic creations, your pleasures – they are all superficial and empty, if they are not floating in the deep sea of your conscious loving.”

#3

“A free man is free to acknowledge his fears, without hiding them, or hiding from them.  Live with your lips pressed against your fears, kissing your fears, neither pulling back nor aggressively violating them.”

#2

“You are entirely responsible for cutting through your own laziness, addictions, and unclarity.  There is nothing to wait for and nobody to blame.  Whatever techniques are appropriate, use them.  Try talking with your friends, using therapy, practicing meditation or prayer, going on a vision quest, reading scripture, walking in nature, keeping a journal, or studying with a teacher.  Remember that your success with any method you choose depends entirely on your actual commitment to discovering your deepest truth and aligning your life with it.”

#1

“Once you have grown into independent adulthood, you no longer need somebody to take care of you.  You can be responsible for yourself.  In particular, you realize that you are responsible for your own happiness.  Nobody can live your life for you.  You must create your own health, success, and happiness.  This sense of self-responsibility is only a partial maturity, however.  Beyond self-responsibility lies the responsibility to give your gift.  It is important to grow beyond dependence on your intimate partner for your own happiness.  But it’s equally important to grow beyond simple independence and autonomy.   The next stage of intimacy after personal independence has been attained is the mutual flow of gifting, or serving each other in love.”

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Read Next:  3 Steps to Leading a More Disciplined Life.

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If you enjoyed these quotes from The Way of the Superior Man you can find more quotes, resources, and info from the book below:

Way of the Superior Man by David Deida

By: Daivd Deida

Book Overview:  What is your true purpose in life? What do women really want? What makes a good lover? If you’re a man reading this, you’ve undoubtedly asked yourself these questions—but you may not have had much luck answering them. Until now.  In The Way of the Superior Man, David Deida explores the most important issues in men’s lives—from career and family to women and intimacy to love and spirituality and relationships—to offer a practical guidebook for living a masculine life of integrity, authenticity, and freedom. Join this bestselling author and internationally renowned expert on sexual spirituality for straightforward advice, empowering skills, body practices, and more to help you realize a life of fulfillment, immediately and without compromise.

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3 Responses to 10 Eye-Opening Quotes from The Way of the Superior Man

  • I’m just coming out from a difficult and toxic relationship with a beautiful woman that was just not good for me. We were simply not compatible or we just met at a bad moment in our lives.

    I’ve read this book shallowly some time ago and I didn’t quite grasp it.
    Now when I read it these quotes everything makes so much sense!
    I was lost without a purpose and because of that I didn’t know how to deal with my life and I’ve just followed her moods. Result … disaster!!!

    Now I read this, and I don’t feel so lost anymore, everything starts to makes sense.

    Guys read this book ! At least twice!!! It will help to be a better man and a better partner !

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